I know that no man is perfected but there are some things to avoid keeping the conflict down. Being in a relationship is not easy, but it's easy to mess things up. Women are not perfected either, so I'm not saying that. But guys tend to do some of the stupidest things that tick women off. Some can be forgiven and some can be, but are unforgettable. I think that anyone would agree with me on this #1 thing that men do that pisses us off is;
1. Lying. I don't know about you, but I can't stand a liar. I was brought up to be honest and always tell the truth. I've lied here and there, little white lies, but to just lie and not care and think you can get away with it, drives me insane! I can't deal with a liar.
2. Cheating, now you would think you are all the women he need, at least that's what he tells you. I think the worse thing a person can do to another human being is to cheat. Once you cheat than the trust just seems to go right out the window. Cheating and lying are the worse! If you do give him another chance then you have to take the time to rebuild that lost trust and who knows how long that is going to take!
3. Being stood up! Man that's just bogus. You took you time getting all dolled up, smelling and looking so good and than all of a sudden he doesn't show up does not even be thoughtful enough to even call. Urrgh!
4. Another thing that gets me is when you always have to pay when going out. We have hard enough time with dealing with life and we definitely don't need no broke man that's going to suck our pockets dry!
5. Staring, I think it is so disrespectful for your man to have his eyes glued to other women. It can make you feel so insecure and you tend to want to smack him upside his head and knock some sense in him. Smack!
6. Does not notice her new hair due or new outfit. Lack of attention can be a problem. Women love to be noticed because we take so much time and effort at looking our best. So a compliment here and there would be nice sometimes. We know we look good, occasionally we like to here it.
7. Leaving your dirty socks lying around! I love you, but damn! No matter how much love I got for you I do not like picking up funky socks! Guys would be just as disgusted if we left our dirty panties or bras laying out for anyone to see. It's just nasty!
8. Some women might not be bothered by this. But when he has too many female friends it can bring up certain suspicions about the relationships that he has with these women, especially if they are attractive.
9. Lacks emotion, hearing those three big words can make a big difference in the relationship. Words are very powerful, so use them, though your actions might speak for them, but hearing the words will be even better. I love you!
10. Not having gratitude for the things she's done is just wrong. Appreciation is what makes the relationship strong. Genuinely giving yourself and your time to someone is the best anyone can get. Take time to say "thank you"
11. Leaving the toilet seat up! Oooooh I can't stand that! And you get even madder when you are not paying attention to the seat and just sit down to do your due and there's noting but booty cheeks floating all in the water ewww!
12. Trying to be a player with no job, no car and living at home with mama. Now tell me this, how in the hell can man be a player and can't even by a decent meal or pay rent? Get a job, grow up!
13. Intimidate by an independent woman. I just don't understand why some men are threatened by an independent woman. Some men can't deal with you making more money than them, accomplish things that they've never did or being able to do the same things that they can do. I guess it makes them feel like you don't need them. We need love too; we just don't need your money!
14. Not being able to give her the big O! Sex is supposed to be a two way street, unfortunately for some women it's just a dead end. Guys if you are having this problem than something need to be done. You get your pleasure, so why can't she get hers? There are sexual enhancers out there and other methods to make the sex life better. What are you waiting for; she's waiting for her O!
15. Last but not least forgetting the birthday, anniversary and Valentine's Day! Man, are you in the hot seat. You are constantly around each other all the time so how can you forget, but men tend to forget anyway. If you don't show her love everyday these days are you opportunity to express it and when you forget to, it can be hell for you! It'll hurt us, but believe me you will feel it and you got a lot of making up to do.
So, guys if you are reading this I hope you learn something from it. When she's happy everyone is happy.
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