Sweet Things To Say To Your Girlfriend

Silly
1- You’re so sweet. I might go diabetic.
2- If I was superman, you will be my kryptonite.
3- Thanks to you, I’ve fallen in love and I can’t get up.
4- I wish I had glasses so I can see you with four eyes.
5- You are my girlfriend because you’re more than just a girl, you’re my friend.
6- A million dollars is nothing compared to the number hugs of I can give you.

Normal
7- You are my best friend.
8- Your voice is sweeter than honey.
9- Our love is friendship, but set on fire.
10- If it wasn’t for you, there would be no me.
11- To me, your smile is brighter than the sun.
12- When I close my eyes at night the first thing I see is you.
13- If I had a million words to say, they will all be I love you.

Poetic/Philosophical
14- Without you, a second is infinity and with you, infinity is a second.
15- Your name is the drumstick that strikes the instrument of my heart.
16- If my love for you was visible, it would not fit in the space of the universe.
17- When you’re away, I feel 50% empty, when you’re with me, I feel 101% complete.
18- I think about you every second of every minute; 25 hours a day, 8 days a week of all the 13 months of the year and in the undefined infinity of all eternity.

Rhymes
19- Without you I’m just simply blue.
20- Your voice sounds better than all my favorite songs put together.
21- If one plus one equals two, than me and you would equal a number that is new.
22- Tonight I have the right to hold you tight with all my might for the rest of my life.
23- If you were to give me a kiss overload, I would faint because my chest would explode.

101 Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend

1-20

1. Are you looking for a long term relationship?
2. How do you feel about ex relationships?
3. How do you feel about kids?
4. If you want kids, how many do you want?
5. Should one person in a relationship stay at home with the kids?
6. Does it matter who it is?
7. How do you feel about your family?
8. How do you feel about your partner’s family?
9. Are you religious?
10. Do you go to church?
11. Does your partner need to go with you?
12. How do you feel about people with beliefs that differ from yours?
13. How do you feel about birth control?
14. Whose responsibility is it?
15. How do you show you love your partner?
16. How should your partner show they love you?
17. How do you react when your partner does something that ticks you off?
18. Is cheating ever okay?
19. Is it ever okay to lie to or deceive your partner?
20. Do you ever want to get married?

21-40

21. Would you want a big wedding or a small one?
22. What’s your perfect honeymoon?
23. Are there any groups of people you just can’t stand?
24. Are there any people you think are just better than others?
25. Do you like pets?
26. Do you think it’s okay to tell your partner what to do/wear/say?
27. Do you have strong political opinions?
28. Should both people in a relationship agree on everything?
29. Do you prefer to sleep together, or alone?
30. Should a couple share a room, or should each person have his or her own space?
31. Do you get jealous?
32. Who do you get jealous of?
33. What do you do about it?
34. Is it okay for your partner to have girl friends?
35. How about same guy friends?
36. How much time should couples spend together?
37. Do you ever feel like your partners are too clingy?
38. Do you ever feel as though your partners are too distant?
39. Which comes first, work or a relationship?
40. How much money do you need to be happy?

41-60

41. Do you prefer to share finances with your partner, or keep them separate?
42. How do you feel about sex outside of marriage?
43. Is there anything we can do in bed that you think is just wrong?
44. What’s your sex drive like?
45. Any kinks I should know about?
46. Are looks important in someone you’re dating?
47. If I got fat, would you dump me?
48. What if I lost a lot of weight?
49. Who are your exes and why’d you break up?
50. What makes a relationship a success?
51. How about what makes one a failure?
52. Is money important?
53. Do you respect women?
54. How about men?
55. Are there any big, innate differences between the sexes?
56. Ever had your heart broken?
57. Do you still have feelings for your exes?
58. What would you do if one of them asked you back?
59. What was your longest previous relationship?
60. What kind of movies do you like?

61-80

61. What’s your favorite thing to do on the weekends?
62. Exercise – fun or a drag?
63. How about the great outdoors?
64. Do you smoke?
65. How do you feel when other people smoke?
66. Do you eat meat?
67. Do you have strong feelings about animals?
68. Are you a political activist?
69. Do you keep kosher/halal/have dietary restrictions?
70. Do you like to read?
71. Do you like to learn?
72. What’s your worst habit?
73. What would you rather change about yourself?
74. What do you wish you could change about me?
75. What do you like best about me?
76. What do you like best about yourself?
77. Should couples spend time apart?
78. Should couples have all the same hobbies?
79. Do you keep secrets from your lovers?
80. What kind of secrets are ok?

81-100

81. What would you do if I were in a disfiguring accident?
82. A disabling one?
83. What are you allergic to?
84. Do you have any major medical conditions I should know about?
85. How about phobias?
86. What are your career goals?
87. Do you move a lot?
88. Do you expect to keep on moving?
89. Which is better, the country, the city or the suburbs?
90. Where did you grow up?
91. Do you like one part of the world/country best?
92. Do you like my friends?
93. Do your friends like me?
94. Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
95. What’s your idea of the perfect date?
96. Should relationships require work?
97. Do you believe in true love?
98. Which is better, thinking or feeling?
99. How do you make decisions?
100. What does love mean to you?
101. Do you love me?

Some of these questions are serious and some not. However, all of them have the potential to change a relationship for better or worse. From little things like what movies you like to watch and how do you like to spend a Friday night. To the big things like kids, a career and religion. Knowing a lot about your boyfriend can help you decide if you’re right for each other and it will also help you see the compromises that can or can not be made.

If you’re in a relationship and you are not sure about it, maybe you need to ask some of the above questions. Don’t ask them all at once – your boyfriend will just feel like he’s being interrogated. Instead, go through this list and think about whether you know the answer to these 101 questions. The more you know about each other, the better your chances are of finding out whether your relationship is going to last.

Cute Names To Call Your Girlfriend

Sleeping beauty: Good for the sleepy heads

Cutsie wootsie: Excellent to say while pinching her cheeks with both hands

Honey bunny: For the really playful

Dolly wholly: For the well dressed

Pretty eyes: Good for the crystal clear colored eyes

Sugar cake: For the sweet and happy

Sugar puff: Perfect if she is sweet and very sensitive (like a marshmallow)

Snookums: Perfect to say before a kiss

Cup cake: For the innocent and sweet

Doll face: For the cute face

Beautiful: Simple yet very effective

Pumpkin: Common name and for casual moments

Freckles: This name speaks for it self

Princess: Perfect is she still has that little girl spirit

Peaches: Good for the girls who blush a lot

Shorty: Be careful, she might really think she is short

Barbie: Excellent if she wants to be a model

Pretty: One of the best names that any girl will love

Angel: For the really elegant

Baby: Common name for both partners

These names are perfect to make one of those romantic scenes were husband and wife calls each nicknames back and forth:

Her: Sugar puff! Dinner’s ready!
Him: I’ll be right there sweetie pie!

Her: OK my little cup cake!
Him: I love you doll face!

Her: Me too cutsie wootsie!
Him: Not more than me sleeping beauty!

Her: Oh yes indeed honey bunny!

You get the picture…

Toughest Questions a Woman Can Ask a Man

The questions are:

What are you thinking about?
Do you love me?
Do I look fat?
Do you think she is prettier than me?
What would you do if I died?

What makes these questions so difficult is that every one is guaranteed to explode into a major argument if the man answers incorrectly (i.e tells the truth). Therefore, as a public service, each question is analyzed below, along with possible responses.

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Question # 1: What are you thinking about?

The proper answer to this, of course, is: "I'm sorry if I've been pensive, dear. I was just reflecting on what a warm, wonderful, thoughtful, caring, intelligent woman you are, and how lucky I am to have met you." This response obviously bears no resemblance to the true answer, which most likely is one of the following:

Baseball.
Football.
How fat you are.
How much prettier she is than you.
How I would spend the insurance money if you died.


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Question # 2: Do you love me?

The proper response is: "YES!" or, if you feel a more detailed answer is in order, "Yes, dear." Inappropriate responses include:

I suppose so.
Would it make you feel better if I said yes?
That depends on what you mean by love.
Does it matter?
Who, me?

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Question # 3: Do I look fat?

The correct answer is an emphatic: "Of course not!" Among the incorrect answers are:

Compared to what?
I wouldn't call you fat, but you're not exactly thin.
A little extra weight looks good on you.
I've seen fatter.
Could you repeat the question? I was just thinking about how I would spend the insurance money if you died.

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Question # 4: Do you think she's prettier than me?

Once again, the proper response is an emphatic: "Of course not!" Incorrect responses include:

Yes, but you have a better personality
Not prettier, but definitely thinner
Not as pretty as you, when you were her age
Define 'pretty'
Could you repeat the question? I was just thinking about how I would spend the insurance money if you died.

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Question #5: What would you do if I died?

A definite no-win question. (The real answer, or course, is "Buy a Corvette.")

No matter how you answer this, be prepared for at least an hour of follow-up questions, usually along the these lines:

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She....Would you get married again?

He.....Definitely not!

She....Why not - don't you like being married?

He.....Of course I do.

She....Then why wouldn't you remarry?

He.....Okay, I'd get married again.

She....You would? (With a hurtful look on her face)

He.....Yes, I would.

She....Would you sleep with her in our bed?

He.....Where else would we sleep?

She....Would you put away my pictures, and replace them with pictures of her?

He.....That would seem like the proper thing to do.

She....And would you let her use my golf clubs?

He.....She can't use them; she's left-handed.

HOW DO I KNOW IF HE ISN’T RIGHT FOR ME.

I am sure you have heard several stories about women who fall for a guy and after a few months into the relationship realize that he wasn't the right one and that's the time when everything becomes just too hard to handle.
So I am guessing that you are reading this article because you are stuck in a mental cycle of confusion and aren't sure whether the man you are with is even right for you or not.
Well, worry not! It's a good thing that you are actually questioning your scenario at the moment as the more you wait, the worse it might get. Here are some useful insights you can use to finally figure out if he is right for you or not...
How do you feel around him? Feelings will reflect the truth...
How do you feel around him most of the time? Do you feel fulfilled, joyful and satisfied most of the time or do you consistently feel down, misunderstood and frustrated?
The feelings you experience around a man will be a very good indicator of whether you are in a nourishing relationship or a toxic one. Because if you consistently experience negative emotions around him then there is something wrong for sure.
In such a situation you have two options, the first one being to talk things out with him and discuss all the areas which need critical attention in your relationship.
Or, if he isn't getting your point of view and is still sticking to his own then you two weren't compatible enough to start with and your relationship will end sooner or later as he isn't the right one for you.
Do you fully accept each other?
Have you fully accepted your man and does he fully accept you? Are you two completely comfortable with each other or are you two always trying to change each other?
There are many couples out there where both the partner's try to control each other and in the process they create a lot of friction and negative feelings in the relationship.
If you have always struggled to accept your man the way he is, and have always found yourself making efforts to change him in one way or the other then he isn't right for you. You would be better off going for a man who you can fully accept even with his flaws.
Where do you see your relationship going 5 years down the road?
Can you imagine a future with this man? Where do you see this relationship going 5 years down the road? Can you imagine it being better or do you fear that it might get worse?
If you feel doubtful about this and aren't really sure where the relationship will be in 5 years from now then this is a very good indicator of how well you really know your man.
If you two were compatible and good for each other, you will have no doubts about the future and will know that things will be far better than what they are at the moment. But if you are doubtful then this is a clear indicator that maybe you are with the wrong man.
Points to remember -
• If you mostly feel good and positive around a guy then he is right for you but if you consistently feel negative and poor around a guy then you are in the company of the wrong man. You would be far better if you let him go.
• A good relationship is a result of a good mutual understanding and compatibility. If you feel that you two don't really share a good level of understanding and are sort of just surviving with each other then he is not the right one for you and you will have to end it sooner or later.

15 THINGS MEN DO THAT PISS WOMEN OFF!

I know that no man is perfected but there are some things to avoid keeping the conflict down. Being in a relationship is not easy, but it's easy to mess things up. Women are not perfected either, so I'm not saying that. But guys tend to do some of the stupidest things that tick women off. Some can be forgiven and some can be, but are unforgettable. I think that anyone would agree with me on this #1 thing that men do that pisses us off is;
1. Lying. I don't know about you, but I can't stand a liar. I was brought up to be honest and always tell the truth. I've lied here and there, little white lies, but to just lie and not care and think you can get away with it, drives me insane! I can't deal with a liar.
2. Cheating, now you would think you are all the women he need, at least that's what he tells you. I think the worse thing a person can do to another human being is to cheat. Once you cheat than the trust just seems to go right out the window. Cheating and lying are the worse! If you do give him another chance then you have to take the time to rebuild that lost trust and who knows how long that is going to take!
3. Being stood up! Man that's just bogus. You took you time getting all dolled up, smelling and looking so good and than all of a sudden he doesn't show up does not even be thoughtful enough to even call. Urrgh!
4. Another thing that gets me is when you always have to pay when going out. We have hard enough time with dealing with life and we definitely don't need no broke man that's going to suck our pockets dry!
5. Staring, I think it is so disrespectful for your man to have his eyes glued to other women. It can make you feel so insecure and you tend to want to smack him upside his head and knock some sense in him. Smack!
6. Does not notice her new hair due or new outfit. Lack of attention can be a problem. Women love to be noticed because we take so much time and effort at looking our best. So a compliment here and there would be nice sometimes. We know we look good, occasionally we like to here it.
7. Leaving your dirty socks lying around! I love you, but damn! No matter how much love I got for you I do not like picking up funky socks! Guys would be just as disgusted if we left our dirty panties or bras laying out for anyone to see. It's just nasty!
8. Some women might not be bothered by this. But when he has too many female friends it can bring up certain suspicions about the relationships that he has with these women, especially if they are attractive.
9. Lacks emotion, hearing those three big words can make a big difference in the relationship. Words are very powerful, so use them, though your actions might speak for them, but hearing the words will be even better. I love you!
10. Not having gratitude for the things she's done is just wrong. Appreciation is what makes the relationship strong. Genuinely giving yourself and your time to someone is the best anyone can get. Take time to say "thank you"
11. Leaving the toilet seat up! Oooooh I can't stand that! And you get even madder when you are not paying attention to the seat and just sit down to do your due and there's noting but booty cheeks floating all in the water ewww!
12. Trying to be a player with no job, no car and living at home with mama. Now tell me this, how in the hell can man be a player and can't even by a decent meal or pay rent? Get a job, grow up!
13. Intimidate by an independent woman. I just don't understand why some men are threatened by an independent woman. Some men can't deal with you making more money than them, accomplish things that they've never did or being able to do the same things that they can do. I guess it makes them feel like you don't need them. We need love too; we just don't need your money!
14. Not being able to give her the big O! Sex is supposed to be a two way street, unfortunately for some women it's just a dead end. Guys if you are having this problem than something need to be done. You get your pleasure, so why can't she get hers? There are sexual enhancers out there and other methods to make the sex life better. What are you waiting for; she's waiting for her O!
15. Last but not least forgetting the birthday, anniversary and Valentine's Day! Man, are you in the hot seat. You are constantly around each other all the time so how can you forget, but men tend to forget anyway. If you don't show her love everyday these days are you opportunity to express it and when you forget to, it can be hell for you! It'll hurt us, but believe me you will feel it and you got a lot of making up to do.
So, guys if you are reading this I hope you learn something from it. When she's happy everyone is happy.

How to Get Over Breakup Pain and Move On With Your Life

If you're reading this, first I'd like to say that you will survive this. Anyone wondering how to get over breakup pain is in a cold, dark place. Fortunately, with a little effort, time and assistance, you will get over your ex.
For starters, you must decide if it is really over. If a part of you is wondering if you can get back together with your ex, you're not yet ready for this guide on how to get over a break up. There is a lot you can do to get an ex back, but the intention here is to help you move on once you've finally accepted that it is over.
How to Get Over Breakup Pain - Starting Place
Okay, so you're in pain and you're asking, "How do I get over a breakup?" First of all, make sure you've completed step one. You must decide that your ex is now and forever a part of your past. You can't truly get over someone while hoping to rekindle the flame; so stick to steps you can take to get an ex back if your real goal is not to let go once and for all.
End Communication to Get Over Breakup Pain
Heartache gets much better after the first 2 - 4 weeks; but one of the biggest lessons in how to get over breakup pain is that every single communication with your ex can be like starting over from day one. By letting your ex back into your heart and mind, even for a short time, you may end up destroying any progress that you made. It's a major setback. So, as hard as it may be, you must cut all UNNECESSARY contact with your ex.
The more you communicate with an ex, the harder it is to get over a break up; so don't call, text, email, tweet, Facebook, or make any other contact. There are exceptions, which we'll talk about in a minute, but for the most part this rule must be followed religiously if you're serious about learning how to get over someone you love.
If your ex calls, ignore the call. If possible, you may even want to change your phone number, block texts and emails, and remove your ex from your online friends lists. Even if the ex shows up on your doorstep or claims an urgent need to speak with you, don't fall for it.
What if you can't cut communications?
Now for the exceptions. Many heartbroken women and men are left wondering, "How do I get over a break up when we must still deal with each other?" It's true that child custody, court proceedings, joint accounts and things of that nature complicate things. But don't lose hope.
If you're trying to get over breakup pain under circumstances where you must communicate with your ex, the best thing you can do is resist all temptation to talk about things unrelated to the reason you must contact each other. If you must talk about the kids, only talk about the kids. If you share a bank account, talk only about the bank account and separate your money as soon as possible. This drastic lack of communication doesn't have to last forever, but you can't be friends with your ex while you're still trying to get over him or her.
These little lessons may not seem like much, but they are both difficult and powerful. Just remember, if relationship repair is an option, learn how to get back together with an ex instead of starting this process of moving on. Begin the work of getting over your ex when you are truly ready. If you can stick to the guidelines here for at least 30 days, you'll find that it is possible to get over breakup pain after all.

DOES HE/SHE LOVES ME?

A person may love someone for a momentary crush and not have real love thus making a relationship less likely to last long; a breakup, then, comes as a big blow. Therefore, people are always keen to know if the person who they are attracted to loves them or not. This is because people in relationships, especially new ones, do not disclose their feelings openly and frankly. Both the persons in relationship are, therefore, left confused about the feelings of each other towards each other.

A person directly confronted and asked if he/she loves him/her may feel obliged to say ‘yes’ even if he/she does not really mean it; this is just not to hurt the person and to tide over the confrontation. Much goes into the study and observation of the psychology, behavior and the body language of the opposite person to find out if he/she loves him/her or not. It is important to know that one signal does not suffice to know if the opposite person loves and is interested in keeping the relationship going.

One should be aware of the fact that subconsciously, the person sends signals to the other partner of their love/dislike or hatred towards him/her. These are the real emotions one has to look out for. Some observations mentioned below if kept in the forefront of one’s mind, can help one to find out whether his/her partner loves him/her or not.

Does He or She Love You?
Initially, there is formality in the relationship when the two meet which soon turns to informality; there is praise and appreciation for one another. This is an indication that the relationship is growing and he/she loves his/her partner. They will begin to look into one another’s eyes for increasing span of time instead of looking away from the partner. The person who loves will very naturally keep his/her lover within their sight-range. Lovers do not like the one they love to be out of their sight even for a moment if that was possible.

To begin with, the two partners will find ways and means to be with each other and they make all efforts to bump into each other several times, anytime and anywhere. This may be initially concluded as coincidental but when it frequently happens it is deliberate and the love in their hearts should not be overlooked.
The physical distance between the two when they meet increasingly lessens if he/she loves the other person. Such closeness will not be found when they meet other people.

When the two stand with a crowd, the natural tendency will be for the person to go and stand with his/her lover. This will not be found if there is no love one for another. This is a part of the body language study and it is true that they will always prefer to stand face to face with each other.

Another subtle way the lover displays his/her love for the partner is with talking and showing concern about small things. They will simply call up the partner and ask if everything is alright with them or they may ask if he/she wants anything for him/her to get. As a pretext for just conversing, they like to go on and on talking even about insignificant matters. If the frequency of such calls increases it shows that he/she loves him/her.

One should watch for the sparkle in the eyes of his/her partner. If there is love, the eyes sparkle when they meet; if they do not love, there will be dullness in their eyes. They may even avoid looking at each other or even meet each other.

Filed under Relationships
Do you know that you are the most important thing in the world? You have to know that you have to love yourself before you are able to love someone else and totally be happy in your life.
You need to let go and relax. Always remember,don’t expect your life and
your relationship to bring you happiness.
Learn to bring happiness to your life and to your relationship!
Find a way to get in control of your life and then you will see that you can have a great life that is full of enjoyment and happiness. When you are willing to take a few different steps to happiness, you will find it to be a big help in the process.

1) Do not
criticize
You do not have to criticize yourself all the time.Criticism is not the answer and never changes anything. You do not need to put all the blame on yourself. Accept yourself for who you are and what you are in life.
2) Do not be
scared
Do not dwell on the bad things in life. You have to stop think about the bad thought and fill your head with good ones. Having pleasures in life is the one way to feel good about you. When you are able to let go of the scary thoughts, you will see that you can have a more enjoyable and easier time finding love for yourself.
3) Be
patient
One of the most valuable lessons in life is to be patient. You have to give yourself time to learn new things.Treat yourself as you would anyone else that you really loved. Give yourself a break and realize that you will get there and have what you need. Do not rush yourself to do something. Patience is a great thing to have and when you learn it you will have a less stressful life and you will find more love in your heart.
4) Give yourself
praise
Make sure that you believe in what you do. Praise yourself every chance that you get. You need to put some positive thoughts into your head so that you are able to have the good outlook on life that you deserve. Give yourself support and find ways to create more support for yourself. Lean on your friends and loved ones. They are there to help you as well and by doing this; you will feel better about who you are and what you have accomplished in life.
5) Love your
body
Remember that your body is very important to your happiness. If you are not happy with the way that you look,you have to do something about it. You will never really be happy unless you get healthy and turn into the person that you want to become.
You have to eat right and do the proper amount of exercise. You need to put these things into your life so that you are able to motivate your body into doing the things that you want it to.
Learn what you can about the different exercises that are good for you. Giving
your body energy is one way to feel good inside and this will help you start to
love yourself for who you are inside and out.
6) Find your inner
strength
Giving yourself the support that you need from the inside out is important. You may want to search and do some digging to find out what your inner being is all about and who you want to become. You have to have some kind of power from deep within helping you through your journey. You need to be strong and think about what you want to have in your life. Think about how much you deserve to be happy and what you should be doing to get there. Pull this from your inner being.
7) Be
spiritual
You do not have to be someone that goes to church all the time to be spiritual. You do however have to find the one thing that makes you happy. The one thing that makes you feel good about how you life your life and what your purpose is. Once you have this, you will start to see that you are finding love in yourself and feeling good about what you are doing.
8) Respect
yourself
Giving respect is something that you have to learn. You also have to learn to give yourself respect. This is something that is very important and without it you will have nothing. You need to know that you are worth respect and that you are someone that can overcome anything because you know that you are someone that can do it. Respecting yourself will come with time and along with respect, you will soon start to love yourself as well.
9) Having
goals
Goals are so important to have at anytime. You need to make long term and hort-term goals for yourself. You can make these goals for later on down the road and for today and tomorrow. As long as you have goals to work for, you will have the will to go on. As you accomplish your goals, you will fee the love form inside you. You will have found the purpose in your life and know that you can achieve what you put your mind to.
10) Be proud of who you are
There is no way to hide from who you are and what you want. You are who you are and you should be proud of it. Giving yourself pride is something that will help you love yourself so you need to do things that make you feel good inside. Knowing that you have worked hard for something and that you deserve it is very important.
Loving yourself is very important. You have to do this before you can love anyone else and with some work, you can achieve a great love for who you are and what you do in
life.

WHY DO MEN LEAVE WOMEN

So why do men leave women? How can he change his mind so quickly? How can he go from someone who loved you a lot to someone who doesn't even want to be with you anymore?
Well this isn't something which happens overnight as most women assume. If your man has decided to leave you then the whole process must have started quite some time ago.
And there could be several reasons for that. Let's discuss this in a bit more detail...
Possible reason #1 - The relationship isn't fulfilling enough anymore...
And when I say it's not fulfilling enough, I am not talking about you but rather him. When a man decides to leave a woman one of the major contributing factors to this decision is the level of fulfillment and satisfaction he is getting out of the relationship.
Do you know what every man wants in a relationship? No, it's not a big list of things. All he wants is to FEEL GOOD. That's it!
Yes, it's really that simple. As long as he feels good in your company he will never ever think about leaving you. But you see in most relationships it starts of really well but then it gets to a point where everything is just extremely negative. And that's the point when the relationship starts to crumble.
Here are some of the things which can cause this -
• Having very high expectations and asking him to live up to them.
• Trying to change or fix him.
• Trying to push him into doing things he normally doesn't want to do.
• Complaining, arguing, nagging etc.
I am sure that you are thinking - Well what if he is wrong? What if it's all, his fault? Well if that's the case then why do you want to be with someone like that anyway? Why are you even reading this?
And we are actually discussing why do men leave women and that's the topic of this article so let's keep it at that for the time being.
Possible reason #2 - Attraction has died...
I am sure you are well aware of the saying that attraction always wears off after a while. You can't be all crazy about the same person after being together for some time. Well, let me tell you - This is one of the major reasons why men leave women.
Attraction isn't really a choice. It's not something one can choose to feel and it only occurs by itself.
I am sure you've had days where you just didn't feel enough attraction for your partner. But you see the main problem starts when you start having those days consistently.
If your man consistently feels a level of boredom in the relationship where there is absolutely no spark whatsoever, he is very likely to leave you.
Here are some of the things which cause it -
• Following the same old boring routine and not doing anything new.
• Being too predictable.
• Not trying new things with your man including sexual things.
Sometimes you have to go back to your old self and be the person your man first fell in love with. Attraction will only last when you are willing to make the right amount of effort.
Possible reason # 3- You have become just too NEEDY...
Have you ever heard of the saying - "A relationship only lasts when it's balanced?"
What do you think this statement actually means? What is balance really? Well a relationship is termed as balanced when both the partners need each other equally.
But when one partner becomes needier than the other, it creates a level of imbalance in the relationship. And this imbalance can lay the foundation of a possible breakup.
This is very common with women who invest a lot of time and effort in their relationship because deep down they fear that things might end some day. And in the process they become extremely needy which burdens their partner.
Really think about it...When you start needing your man for every little thing, you will indirectly come across as a very demanding woman and he will feel the burden to fulfill those demands which is never a good thing.
Men want to be free even when they are in a relationship and if you need him more than he actually needs you then, this conflicts with his need for freedom due to which he might eventually leave you.
Important points -
• Just like you expect positive things from your relationship, so does your man. The only way to make him stay is to keep things positive.
• Don't make him feel trapped by being too demanding; learn to keep his needs in mind as well before your own.
• Whenever you feel that your relationship is starting to feel a bit boring, make it a habit to do something fresh or new. This will bring the spark and attraction back.
• Above all PLEASE! PLEASE!! NEVER LIE to him not even the so called white LIE! That might kill the trust he have for you if ever he find out the truth and TRUST IS LOVE. And I guess you will not want to lose a relationship that you might have been building for some time.

20 ways to a loving relationship:

1.Treat your partner the way that you would like to be treated.
2. Look your partner in the eye when you talk to them.
3. Compliment your partner.
4. No matter how long you've been with your partner, treat them as if you've just met them.
5. Don't raise your voice at your partner.
6. Respect your partner's views.
7. Respect your partner's friends.
8. Don't allow anger with your partner to boil over to the following day.
9. Communicate with your partner at least once a day.
10. Remember your partner's birthday or whatever day is special to them
11. Dress well in clothes that will be attractive to your partner.
12. Keep your hair well groomed.
13. Don't compromise on hygiene.
14. Keep your breathe fresh.
15. Maintain a healthy weight.
16. Keep your nails the way your partner likes them.
17. Adapt good table manners.
18. Don't talk loudly or use vulgar language.
19. Step away when you need to blow loudly into your handkerchief.
20. Don't leave the house without oiling yourself.