DOES HE/SHE LOVES ME?

A person may love someone for a momentary crush and not have real love thus making a relationship less likely to last long; a breakup, then, comes as a big blow. Therefore, people are always keen to know if the person who they are attracted to loves them or not. This is because people in relationships, especially new ones, do not disclose their feelings openly and frankly. Both the persons in relationship are, therefore, left confused about the feelings of each other towards each other.

A person directly confronted and asked if he/she loves him/her may feel obliged to say ‘yes’ even if he/she does not really mean it; this is just not to hurt the person and to tide over the confrontation. Much goes into the study and observation of the psychology, behavior and the body language of the opposite person to find out if he/she loves him/her or not. It is important to know that one signal does not suffice to know if the opposite person loves and is interested in keeping the relationship going.

One should be aware of the fact that subconsciously, the person sends signals to the other partner of their love/dislike or hatred towards him/her. These are the real emotions one has to look out for. Some observations mentioned below if kept in the forefront of one’s mind, can help one to find out whether his/her partner loves him/her or not.

Does He or She Love You?
Initially, there is formality in the relationship when the two meet which soon turns to informality; there is praise and appreciation for one another. This is an indication that the relationship is growing and he/she loves his/her partner. They will begin to look into one another’s eyes for increasing span of time instead of looking away from the partner. The person who loves will very naturally keep his/her lover within their sight-range. Lovers do not like the one they love to be out of their sight even for a moment if that was possible.

To begin with, the two partners will find ways and means to be with each other and they make all efforts to bump into each other several times, anytime and anywhere. This may be initially concluded as coincidental but when it frequently happens it is deliberate and the love in their hearts should not be overlooked.
The physical distance between the two when they meet increasingly lessens if he/she loves the other person. Such closeness will not be found when they meet other people.

When the two stand with a crowd, the natural tendency will be for the person to go and stand with his/her lover. This will not be found if there is no love one for another. This is a part of the body language study and it is true that they will always prefer to stand face to face with each other.

Another subtle way the lover displays his/her love for the partner is with talking and showing concern about small things. They will simply call up the partner and ask if everything is alright with them or they may ask if he/she wants anything for him/her to get. As a pretext for just conversing, they like to go on and on talking even about insignificant matters. If the frequency of such calls increases it shows that he/she loves him/her.

One should watch for the sparkle in the eyes of his/her partner. If there is love, the eyes sparkle when they meet; if they do not love, there will be dullness in their eyes. They may even avoid looking at each other or even meet each other.

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Do you know that you are the most important thing in the world? You have to know that you have to love yourself before you are able to love someone else and totally be happy in your life.
You need to let go and relax. Always remember,don’t expect your life and
your relationship to bring you happiness.
Learn to bring happiness to your life and to your relationship!
Find a way to get in control of your life and then you will see that you can have a great life that is full of enjoyment and happiness. When you are willing to take a few different steps to happiness, you will find it to be a big help in the process.

1) Do not
criticize
You do not have to criticize yourself all the time.Criticism is not the answer and never changes anything. You do not need to put all the blame on yourself. Accept yourself for who you are and what you are in life.
2) Do not be
scared
Do not dwell on the bad things in life. You have to stop think about the bad thought and fill your head with good ones. Having pleasures in life is the one way to feel good about you. When you are able to let go of the scary thoughts, you will see that you can have a more enjoyable and easier time finding love for yourself.
3) Be
patient
One of the most valuable lessons in life is to be patient. You have to give yourself time to learn new things.Treat yourself as you would anyone else that you really loved. Give yourself a break and realize that you will get there and have what you need. Do not rush yourself to do something. Patience is a great thing to have and when you learn it you will have a less stressful life and you will find more love in your heart.
4) Give yourself
praise
Make sure that you believe in what you do. Praise yourself every chance that you get. You need to put some positive thoughts into your head so that you are able to have the good outlook on life that you deserve. Give yourself support and find ways to create more support for yourself. Lean on your friends and loved ones. They are there to help you as well and by doing this; you will feel better about who you are and what you have accomplished in life.
5) Love your
body
Remember that your body is very important to your happiness. If you are not happy with the way that you look,you have to do something about it. You will never really be happy unless you get healthy and turn into the person that you want to become.
You have to eat right and do the proper amount of exercise. You need to put these things into your life so that you are able to motivate your body into doing the things that you want it to.
Learn what you can about the different exercises that are good for you. Giving
your body energy is one way to feel good inside and this will help you start to
love yourself for who you are inside and out.
6) Find your inner
strength
Giving yourself the support that you need from the inside out is important. You may want to search and do some digging to find out what your inner being is all about and who you want to become. You have to have some kind of power from deep within helping you through your journey. You need to be strong and think about what you want to have in your life. Think about how much you deserve to be happy and what you should be doing to get there. Pull this from your inner being.
7) Be
spiritual
You do not have to be someone that goes to church all the time to be spiritual. You do however have to find the one thing that makes you happy. The one thing that makes you feel good about how you life your life and what your purpose is. Once you have this, you will start to see that you are finding love in yourself and feeling good about what you are doing.
8) Respect
yourself
Giving respect is something that you have to learn. You also have to learn to give yourself respect. This is something that is very important and without it you will have nothing. You need to know that you are worth respect and that you are someone that can overcome anything because you know that you are someone that can do it. Respecting yourself will come with time and along with respect, you will soon start to love yourself as well.
9) Having
goals
Goals are so important to have at anytime. You need to make long term and hort-term goals for yourself. You can make these goals for later on down the road and for today and tomorrow. As long as you have goals to work for, you will have the will to go on. As you accomplish your goals, you will fee the love form inside you. You will have found the purpose in your life and know that you can achieve what you put your mind to.
10) Be proud of who you are
There is no way to hide from who you are and what you want. You are who you are and you should be proud of it. Giving yourself pride is something that will help you love yourself so you need to do things that make you feel good inside. Knowing that you have worked hard for something and that you deserve it is very important.
Loving yourself is very important. You have to do this before you can love anyone else and with some work, you can achieve a great love for who you are and what you do in
life.