So you're frustrated by your search for Prince Charming? You're tired of always ended up alone and disappointed by yet another burnt out relationship? Follow these tips and get back on track.
Instructions
o 1 This is a horrid
o first impression
The single worst mistake that many woman make is looking for a prospective Mr. Right in the same pace that some girls look for Mr. Tonight. This may not apply to you specifically but the general concept warrants discussion.
Why on earth would a lady date a man that they found in a club? Ladies, in case you don't know, what we are looking for when we go to a club is a three letter word that starts with S and ends with X. That probably isn't a shocker to you but think about it: Is this something to base a long term relationship on?
Forget about one night stands here. I'm assuming that you did NOT take him home. I'm assuming that you met an attractive man at a club or party.
This man has seen you "clubbing" meaning that you were probably not dressed as modestly as you normally would be. I can tell you ladies that while we males may not always be very logical our brains are very organized.
I can tell you that any girl that we meet in a club is automatically filed away in the "Conquest" bin, and not the "potential marriage" bin. Of this I can assure you.
o 2 The average man
o thinks about sex all
o day long. At least in
o here he is surrounded
o by plenty of things to
o take his mind off it.
Where then can you find an attractive man in an environment that is more conductive to your cause? There are lots of places. Get creative. The key is that it will be a place that caters to the higher functions of the mind.
Let's take an example: Barnes & Nobles. See, places like these create a filtering system that you need. The men that come in to B&N are not just old, married, or nerdy. There are lots of collage students there too and their minds are in the right place while they are there.
I'm not suggesting that you start hanging out at bookstores or libraries, don't worry. I'm merely suggesting that while you are in these environs that are more conductive to your cause that you become more receptive and when you are clubbing or partying you become less receptive. This leads me to the next step.
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o 3 Let us chase you. Men love a good hunt and I'll tell you something else: If a man seems too eager then it is a sign that you should run the other way. It may be flattering but remember that if it's sex that he's after then another girl would probably suit him just fine. This is doubly true if he's been drinking.
The best man is a self-confident man, right? Let us chase you. We do not respect "easy" girls, period.
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o 4 In the same vein is another concept that needs to be addressed here. There is no worse mistake that a woman can make than "Giving it up" too soon. We are hunters, remember? A man is going to be with you for two reasons.
Either he wants to have sex with you or he wants to build a relationship with you. If you give him the first too soon you will never really know which he was after. Make us wait! This is the secret to finding out our truest intentions.
A man that has feelings for you and respects you as a woman and a person will not pressure you. Period. I suggest making us wait for a minimum of three months, but five is better and after marriage is best.
I don't say that out of a sense of religious propriety. It stems from the fact that if a man is willing to wait for you that long then chances are very good that he legitimately loves you.
See, we males often confuse lust with love and if you give us the first before the second has had a chance to establish itself we may simply leave. We are hunters at heart, never forget that
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